{"id":836,"date":"2013-06-25T00:11:56","date_gmt":"2013-06-24T17:11:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=836"},"modified":"2013-06-25T00:11:56","modified_gmt":"2013-06-24T17:11:56","slug":"chon-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=836","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t l\u00ean nhau b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. L\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 sau \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bao quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang cho b\u1ea1n trai hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. H\u1ecd t\u00ecm ra b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng quan m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd thay v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u00edch tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video; n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u00edch phim \u1ea3nh, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n th\u00edch phim \u1ea3nh hay bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh; n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u00edch ch\u00e8 ch\u00e9n, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u00edch \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng v.v. Thanh bi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb sao l\u00e3ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m n\u00e0y v\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, chia s\u1ebb m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch nhau \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u01a1n b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u1ede c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00f9ng k\u0129 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i x\u1ea3y ra qua vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, chia s\u1ebb th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp khi b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u1ec1 tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 d\u1ef1 \u1ee9ng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, ai \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 trong thanh ni\u00ean. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea v\u1ec1 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u0103m d\u00f2 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c r\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. D\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

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Selecting friends<\/p>\n

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College friends have the most influence on each other because you will become more like the people you spend the most time with. As student, you should select your friends carefully because they can affect your learning, your grade, and consequently how success or failure you will become. To achieve your educational goals, you need to surround yourself with friends who are there to study, who have clear career goals. This is also true for boyfriend or girl friend in romantic relationships.<\/p>\n

First year college students often do not know how to select friends carefully. They find friends via their interests rather than something else. If they like videogames, they find friends who play videogames; if they like movies, they find friends who like movies or know something about movies stars; if they like to party, they find friends who also like to go to party etc. Young people often get easily distracted by these interests and forget that they go to college to get educated, to learn and building a career for the future. To find someone who can help you to study, to share your dream with, and to encourage each other to achieve the education goals than you will need to be more selective because these people are hard to find.<\/p>\n

The goal of having good friends in school is to help you to improve your learning. Being with friends who are studious allows you to develop the same skills that make them successful. The change happens through exchange of ideas, sharing information and study habit as you admire them for their determination, for their knowledge and skills, for the ethics that they live by, and for their efforts to achieve success not only in school, but also in their life.<\/p>\n

It is important to look for people who are proactive by having a career plan, someone who know what they want in life, and someone who set goals to work toward and find a way to accomplish them. These are signs of maturity and determination which are rare among young people. You may want to look for people who are passionate about certain area, people who are constantly exploring and learning, who have many interests and enjoy sharing what they have learned with others. These are signs of people who would achieve great things. You may want to look for people who love to read, especially having a broad knowledge about technology trends as they can help you on your career advice, help you set your direction and achieve your goals. Spending more time with these kinds of people will not only provide you with a better way to achieve your educational goals but it will help you to establish a good relationship that may last beyond college and could be friends for life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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