	{"id":6114,"date":"2018-11-13T14:54:48","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T07:54:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=6114"},"modified":"2018-11-13T14:54:48","modified_gmt":"2018-11-13T07:54:48","slug":"pham-sai-lam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=6114","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>D\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb h\u1ecdc trong n\u01b0\u1edbc sang h\u1ecdc n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c cho c\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc sinh v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd. V\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 li\u1ec7u con h\u1ecd c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u00edt ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u00ean con h\u1ecd \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu con h\u1ecd \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, m\u1ecdi h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111i ra n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u hi v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. \u0110i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng xa nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1edbi sai l\u1ea7m. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, tr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng M\u0129, nh\u01b0ng \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc KH\u00d4NG ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a em. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a em cho n\u00ean em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch em h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.\u201d H\u1ecdc sinh th\u01b0\u1eddng lo ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201cF\u201d (tr\u01b0\u1ee3t) l\u00e0m h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 h\u00e0n l\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd tr\u00ean 100 m\u00f4n trong b\u1ed1n n\u0103m, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cF\u201d trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i m\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sang m\u00f4n ti\u1ebfp trong m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t m\u00f4n. X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c sang m\u00f4n sau v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1ee3t. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1ee3t v\u00e0i m\u00f4n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 treo h\u00e0n l\u00e2m, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00ed do h\u1ecdc sinh tr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n. L\u00ed do th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u201cc\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc\u201d v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 ghi nh\u1edb s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c thay v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u1edf m\u1ee9c s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n s\u1edbm TR\u01af\u1edaC KHI ra n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng khuy\u00ean h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u1ecdc t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00ean l\u1edbp; ch\u0103m ch\u00fa tr\u00ean l\u1edbp; tham gia v\u00e0o th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u; ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ebft ra nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m quan tr\u1ecdng trong v\u1edf; xem l\u1ea1i s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 ghi ch\u00e9p ngay sau m\u1ed7i gi\u1edd l\u00ean l\u1edbp; h\u1ecfi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 xem l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c ghi ch\u00e9p n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u00ec thi.<\/p>\n<p>Sai l\u1ea7m th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c trong nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 sai. Sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng cao v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u1edf trung h\u1ecdc v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc sinh, t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, tham v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m kh\u00e1c nhau. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn.<\/p>\n<p>G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf nhi\u1ec5m th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng, hay u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng ma tu\u00fd v\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ed7. M\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf t\u1eeb ch\u00e2u \u00c1 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh trong h\u1ecd m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi d\u00f9ng ma tu\u00fd b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p. Khi sinh vi\u00ean h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng v\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc. Cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u1eed tr\u00ed c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i khi h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1ee3t nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4n hay vi ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y m\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi khi qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5. (t\u1ee9c l\u00e0, Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi h\u1ecd b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i.) T\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng khuy\u00ean h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng s\u1edbm nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng sinh vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n hay nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ea5p. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u01b0\u1ee3t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd \u00edt b\u1ecb c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00e2y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Gi\u1eef v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi x\u1ea3y ra l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn n\u00ean h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfp. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac. H\u1ecd n\u00ean th\u00fa nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m, r\u1ed3i s\u1eeda t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o sinh vi\u00ean: \u201cC\u00e1c em v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c em s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e1c em th\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c em ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00e1c em.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;English version&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Making Mistakes<\/p>\n<p>The transition from studying locally to studying overseas is always challenging for both students and their parents. For most parents, it means a lot of worries about whether their children will do well and succeed or not since parents have less control of them overseas than if they go to school in their own country.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, every student who goes overseas begin with a lot of hope and expectations but some end up in failures because of the lack of preparation. What they expect may not be what they experience as many of them are not prepared to deal with issues of living and learning in a new environment. If they can overcome these issues, the chance to do well and graduate successfully can increase significantly.<\/p>\n<p>Every first-year students make mistakes, especially when they are living away from home, but if they can learn from these mistakes, they will do well. Learning from mistakes is an important part of growing up and take responsibility. However, many students do not know how to deal with a mistake. For example, failing a course is common in U.S. school, but in their country, it may be unacceptable. That is why some students do not want their parents to know that they have failed. Many suffer from their first failure, become depressed and loss of confidence.<\/p>\n<p>I often advise international students: \u201cFailing a course is NOT the end of your education journey. It is only a signal about your learning so you need to evaluate the way you study and make a correction so it will not happen again.\u201d Students often worry that an \u201cF\u201d grade (Failure) create damage to their academic record. I explain that they have over 100 courses over four years, and one \u201cF\u201d in one course will not make a difference. Sometimes, if they fail a foundation course, they will have to retake that course as they cannot go on the next course in a series. It is better to build a good foundation than continue to the next course and fail again. If they fail several courses, they will be placed on academic probation, and it can impact their studying. If they cannot improve their grade, they will be dismissed.<\/p>\n<p>There are several reasons that students fail a course. The most common is they do not know \u201chow to study\u201d as many are still trying to memorize facts and formulas instead of understanding the concepts at a deeper level and be able to solve problems. This can be avoided if students are trained earlier BEFORE going overseas. I often advise students to read the materials before coming to class; pay attention in class; participate in the discussion and ask questions if they do not understand; only write the important concepts in the note; review the textbook to complete the note immediately after each class; ask the teachers if you do not understand something, and review these notes before the exam.<\/p>\n<p>Another common mistake among first-year students is choosing the wrong friends. First-year students often have a high ideal of friendship, but friendship in college is not like high-school because there are many types of students, each has different ideas, opinions, ambitions, and interests. Many are there to study but some are not, and without carefully selecting friends, students\u2018 learning can be influenced by the friends that they choose.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, I have seen many international students got into the bad habit of partying, or using alcohols and drugs as these are available in many places. One issue with international students from Asia is many like to drink. Some told me that drinking is common among young people and alcohol is often a major issue among them that parents need to pay attention. The issue is heavy drinking may lead to using illegal drugs. When students are focusing too much on partying and drinking, they do not have enough time to study. Even some are able to handle the situation themselves, many are not, and often get dismissed when they fail many courses or violate the laws.<\/p>\n<p>Many international students do not want to talk to their parents about these problems until it is too late. (i.e., Usually when they got dismissed.) I always advise them to tell their parents about the situation as soon as possible but students often hesitate to tell their parents about their grades, if they fail a course or receive lower grades. I tell them that by letting their parents know about the failed grade will give them less thing to stress about. Keeping problems to themselves is not healthy and may cause depression as they need to get the support from home to prevent it from happening again. Even if they fail a course, they should learn from their mistake and move on. Of course, failure is not a good thing but it is not the end. They should admit to their parents that they have made a mistake, then correct the situation and continue.<\/p>\n<p>I often tell students: \u201cYou go to college to learn many things, including learning from mistakes. As long you can overcome these issues, you will learn well. Your parents would rather have you make a mistake in school than a more serious mistake in your life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>D\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb h\u1ecdc trong n\u01b0\u1edbc sang h\u1ecdc n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c cho c\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc sinh v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd. 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