Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc blog c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cD\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y KH\u00d4NG khuy\u00ean tr\u1ebb em h\u1ecdc l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh m\u00e1y t\u00ednh. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi? Xin th\u1ea7y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00e1p: \u201cM\u1ecdi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n con h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c nhau. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 con h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ebft m\u00e3 khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 cho con h\u1ecd t\u1edbi h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft m\u00e3 v.v. Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con m\u00ecnh, KH\u00d4NG ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. Theo \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u00f4i, con b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, con c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3 cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang s\u1ebd k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00ean ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tivi, hay tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, con c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u1edf nh\u00e0, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, con b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n.\u201d<\/p>\n
Theo Ts. Jean Piaget, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m nom v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u1eddi gian c\u00f9ng con h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Ts. Piaget \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f9ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cN\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u201d \u00a0C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nhau: \u201cCh\u00e1u \u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u \u00edt b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u.\u201d Kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, ch\u00e2u Phi, v\u00e0 ch\u00e2u \u00c1. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau. Tr\u1ebb em mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i mua \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i cho ch\u00fang, mua qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o hay c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 CH\u1ec8 V\u1ec0 TH\u1edcI GIAN. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cBao nhi\u00eau b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? Bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u con h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n? Bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 cho con h\u1ecd v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc vi\u1ebft m\u00e3, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, m\u00faa, ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef hay to\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u00fang s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y?\u201d<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a Ts. Piaget d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u00f9ng con nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i khi s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u1ecf c\u00f9ng con h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf (2 t\u1edbi 4 tu\u1ed5i) ch\u00fa y\u1ebfu th\u00edch chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch. Tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb 5 t\u1edbi 8 tu\u1ed5i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u01b0a th\u00edch c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 con v\u1eadt, kh\u1ee7ng long, v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. Tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb 7 t\u1edbi 10 tu\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m ri\u00eang, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u s\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00fang cho con h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng KH\u00d4NG ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 n\u1ed9i dung m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ed7 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con h\u1ecd ngh\u0129, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn. Ts. Piaget n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u1ed7 c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap con h\u1ecd th\u0103m d\u00f2, kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho t\u00f2 m\u00f2 th\u00eam v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc s\u00e2u h\u01a1n khi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean.\u201d<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay nh\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a Ts. David Code, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed tr\u1ebb em n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0: \u201c\u0110\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eb7t \u01b0u ti\u00ean v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft.\u201d \u00d4ng \u1ea5y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cC\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 lo \u00e2u, m\u1ec7t l\u1eed, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 h\u01b0. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 nhanh ch\u00f3ng hi sinh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho con h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ecd sang tr\u01b0\u1eddng kia, t\u1eeb h\u1ecdc k\u00e8m to\u00e1n t\u1edbi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 thao v\u00e0 con h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u1ede NH\u00c0 n\u01a1i ch\u00fang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang. Khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u00e2m v\u00e0o tranh lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u00e3i c\u1ecd v\u00e0 con h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cM\u00f3n qu\u00e0 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho con h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1ea1i NH\u00c0 c\u00f9ng con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cTr\u1ebb em theo b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t t\u00f2 m\u00f2, ch\u00fang bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean cho ch\u00fang s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00ec trao \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 cho ch\u00fang s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u1ea1t sang b\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u00e1o ch\u00ed, s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ti vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00fang v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cT\u00f4i KH\u00d4NG ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac con l\u1edbn l\u00ean, trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hay m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m n\u0103m n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay. C\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb t\u00ednh to\u00e1n v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay. \u0110\u1eeaNG s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft m\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e2y gi\u1edd hay kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Ch\u00fang v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn d\u00e0nh ra v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, cho n\u00ean t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u01b0u th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i.\u201d<\/p>\n
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After reading my blog about what children need, a mother wrote to me: \u201cIt seems that you do NOT recommend children to learn computer programming. What is the best way to raise successful children in this Fourth Industrial Revolution? Please advise.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Answer: \u201cEvery parent wants their children to be successful and there are different opinions. Language schools advise parents to have their children to learn a foreign language. Coding schools recommend parents to send their children to learn how to code etc. However, as a parent, it is your responsibility to raise your children, NOT somebody else. In my opinion, your children learn best from you, they want to be like you, to connect with you and spend time with you. If you are busy and do not spend time with them, your children will not be able to build that connection so they will connect with somebody else, maybe some characters from the TV shows, or the video games. If you are unhappy and stresses all the time, your children will learn that from you and become stressful and anger. Whatever you do at home, your children will learn from you. Whatever you treat others, your children also learn to treat them just like you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAccording\u00a0to Dr. Jean Piaget, a famous psychologist, a caring and loving parents who invest in time with their children are more likely to have successful children. Dr. Piaget has conducted many studies on children behavior. He asked thousands of children the same question: \u201cIf you have one wish about your parents, what would it be?\u201d \u00a0The answer is always the same: \u201cI wish my parents are less busy and spend more time with me.\u201d This study is conducted in several countries in Europe, Africa, and Asia. The answer is always the same. Children want to spend more time with their parents. They did not ask their parents to buy them toys, clothes or other things but ONLY TIME. He concluded: \u201cHow many parents understand this? How many parents know what their children really want? How many parents would rather send their children to special schools to learn coding, music, dance, foreign languages, or math to make sure they will be successful without knowing the real needs of these young children?<\/p>\n
One of the advice from Dr. Piaget is for parents to read books with young children. However, reading should not stop when the book ends but parents should have a brief discussion with their children about the book, the story, the lessons, good or bad, and what they can learn from the book. Young children (2 to 4) prefer mostly fairy tales. Children from 5 to 8 often prefer other topics such as animals, dinosaurs, and historical tales. Children from 7 to 10 begin to have their own interests, and they may ask for different types of books. However, parents can select the right educational books for their children. The important is NOT about the content but the discussion afterward where they encourage their children to think, to analyze, to understand the morals, and draw a conclusion. Dr. Piaget said: \u201cThis is where a real education is, where parents help their children to explore, to discover, and to build their interest in learning. It is also the foundation for more curiosity and deeper learning of children when they grow up.\u201d<\/p>\n
Another best advice from Dr. David Code, another famous children psychologist is: \u201cTo raise successful children, put priority in your marriage first.\u201d He explained: \u201cFamilies focus too much on children often create anxious, exhausted parents which lead to the demanding and spoiled children. Many parents are too quick to sacrifice their marriages for their children by spending all their time to take children from one school to another school, from math tutorial to sport activities and children never spend time AT HOME where they build a relationship with their parents. When parents are tired and exhaust it is easy to get into arguments and fights and their children often become stressed and depressed. He concluded: \u201cThe greatest gift parents can give your children is to have a happy marriage at HOME with their children.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cChildren by nature are very curious, they always want to know more. When they have questions, parents should give them the most attention because communication is very important if you want them to be happy and successful. The best way to do this is to give them your full attention whenever they speak to you. This means putting aside your newspapers, your book, your electronic devices, your TV show and really listening to what they have to say and answer them with your best attention, which will encourage your children to learn more from you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI am NOT an authority in child education but as a professor in technology, I understand that some of you are worried about the Fourth Industrial Revolution and what it brings. The fact is technologies change fast and by the time your children grow up, in the next ten or fifteen years, I am sure that technologies will be different from today. Computer devices and programming languages will be different from today. Do NOT be afraid that your children cannot code now or cannot speak a foreign language now. They still have plenty of time to learn. But they only have a very short time to spend with you so take advantage of this precious time to spend with them and teach them what they need so they can grow up to be an ethical, responsible, and honest person who can contribute to our society and humanities.\u201d<\/p>\n
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