M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cGia \u0111\u00ecnh em b\u1ea3o em r\u1eb1ng em c\u1ea7n \u0111i h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m ra nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. T\u1ea1i sao em c\u1ea7n \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac? Em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0 Xin th\u1ea7y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00e1p: Em \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 gi\u00fap em hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 em \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a em v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em, v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh em, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc em, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Em c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, em c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng tin nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a em \u0111\u1ec3 cho em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ph\u1ea7n b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m ra ti\u1ec1n KH\u00d4NG BAO GI\u1edc l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, em c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 em \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3. Em l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a em th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 v\u00e0 em l\u00e0m ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a em, may m\u1eafn c\u1ee7a em, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00fang v.v.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1eeaNG g\u1eafn gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c hay h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ti\u1ec1n KH\u00d4NG T\u01af\u01a0NG \u0110\u01af\u01a0NG V\u1edaI H\u1ea0NH PH\u00daC. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n KH\u00d4NG BAO GI\u1edc h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec h\u1ecd bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t n\u00f3. Em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o em ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ch\u00fat ti\u1ec1n, h\u1ecd bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 KH\u00d4NG BAO GI\u1edc h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1eeaNG l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u em mu\u1ed1n. Em mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfc xe m\u00e1y, v\u00e0 em c\u00f3 n\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 em h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n hay \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp? Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i em mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o em c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra khi em KH\u00d4NG c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, em b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 TR\u1ea0NG TH\u00c1I C\u1ee6A T\u00c2M TR\u00cd, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hay t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
Em \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 cho em hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a em. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o em hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a me, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
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Education, money and Happiness<\/p>\n
A student wrote to me: \u201cMy family told me that I need to go to school, to get a job, make a lot of money, and be happy. Why do I need to go to school to be happy? What else can I do to be happier?\u00a0 Please advise.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Answer: You go to school to get educated. The goals of education are to help you to understand the world that you are living in and your responsibilities to yourself, to your family, your country, and the world. The more education you have, the better informed you are about what is going on in your environment so you can make a better decision. A prosperous country depends on its people who are informed about all social issues and take part in their duties to support, defend, and help improve the lives of their people.<\/p>\n
Making money is NEVER the goal of education. To get a job, you need to have certain knowledge and skills and you go to school to learn and develop such skills. How well you are doing on your job and how much money you make depend on other factors such as your skills, your luck, to do the right thing at the right time etc.<\/p>\n
DO NOT associate an education with money or happiness. Money does NOT EQUAL HAPPINESS. Happiness is a state of mind and being content with life. People who have a lot of money NEVER happy because they are always living in fear of losing it. Can you be happy and fearful at the same time? Of course, you may not experience it until you have a lot of money. People who are obsessed with money are always anxious and stressful. If they have some money, they always want more and NEVER happy with their lives.<\/p>\n
DO NOT confuse happiness with getting what you want. You want a motorcycle, and you get it, maybe you are happy for a week or so then what is next? Then you want something else. As long as you want something and get it, you feel happy but what happens when you DO NOT get it? Of course, you are unhappy. Happiness is a STATE OF MIND, not something you can get or seek.<\/p>\n
You go to school to be educated so you understand yourself and your responsibilities. As long you understand yourself and content with your life, happiness will come naturally.<\/p>\n
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