M\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cEm th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ecdc blog c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 th\u00edch l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0ng em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Em kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi em? Em c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y.\u201d<\/p>\n
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T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i cho em \u0111\u00f3: \u201cL\u00ed do em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a em v\u00ec em kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed em \u0111ang b\u1ecb x\u00e2m chi\u1ebfm b\u1edfi c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 em \u0111ang quan t\u00e2m B\u00c2Y GI\u1edc. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u em mu\u1ed1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y thay v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 em bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng em c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, em bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng em ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc cho k\u00ec thi tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng em c\u00f3 th\u00f4i th\u00fac n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n em tr\u00ean facebook. M\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a em v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u em mu\u1ed1n B\u00c2Y GI\u1edc cho n\u00ean em k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd tr\u00ean Facebook thay v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n
L\u00ed do em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0 v\u00ec em b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 KH\u00d4NG th\u00edch th\u00fa.\u00a0Cho d\u00f9 em th\u00edch l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0ng em t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ec5 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00ec em th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng vui ch\u01a1i kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 em th\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 c\u00f2n h\u01a1n. Trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u201cInternet\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cTr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i Video\u201d n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u01b0a th\u00edch c\u00f3 \u201cs\u1ef1 v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c\u201d thay v\u00ec l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch th\u00fa. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00ec h\u1ecd qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e2m chi\u1ebfm t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u1ecd. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi khi h\u1ecd v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi khi h\u1ecd t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi khi ai \u0111\u00f3 cho h\u1ecd vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi l\u00fac.<\/p>\n
L\u00ed do em kh\u00f4ng l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p b\u00e2y gi\u1edd v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed em bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111i theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c. Em bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng em c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng em kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3. C\u00f3 \u201ctr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c\u201d trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed em gi\u1eefa hai \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u1eafng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i em l\u00e0m. Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i th\u00edch th\u00fa ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng th\u1eafng so v\u1edbi c\u00e1i d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00edch th\u00fa th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u hai l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho em \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m. T\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p?\u201d C\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea0I SAO\u201d s\u1ebd gi\u00fap em l\u00e0m b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu em KH\u00d4NG c\u00f3 l\u00ed do v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc em s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m n\u00f3. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p hay ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 em th\u00edch tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft.\u00a0 Em kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n c\u00e1c k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 em c\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi l\u1ea5y c\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00f3 trong n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec3n sang c\u00e1c n\u0103m sau. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed7i l\u00fac \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap em ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em. \u00a0Sau r\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a em, ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a em, v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 em m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
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Cannot plan for the future<\/p>\n
A first-year college student wrote to me: \u201cI often read your blog and like your advice about career planning but I could not make up my mind to do it. I do not know what is wrong with me? I need your help.\u201d<\/p>\n
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I wrote to him: \u201cThe reason you cannot make a decision to plan your career because you do not want to think about the future when your mind is being occupied by things that you are interested NOW. It is all about what you want to enjoy at this moment rather than thinking about something you know that you need.<\/p>\n
For example, you know that you must study for the exam next week but you have an urge to talk to your friends on facebook. Your interest diverse your attention to what you want NOW so you end up spending several hours on Facebook instead of studying.<\/p>\n
The reason you cannot make a decision about your career because you are forced to do something NOT enjoyable.\u00a0Even you like my advice about career planning but you find ways of delaying the efforts because you finding other fun activities you would rather do. In this \u201cInternet\u201d and \u201cVideo Games\u201d culture, many young people prefer to have \u201cinstant gratification\u201d rather than doing something that they do not enjoy. I have seen many young people lose their ability to think further into the future as they are too busy with trivial things that occupy their mind. Many wait until they go to college then wait until they graduate, and wait until \u00a0somebody gives them a job. All they do is to wait because they have many things occupy their mind at any moment.<\/p>\n
The reason you do not plan your career now because your mind always moves in a different direction. You know that you have things to do but you do not want to do it. There is an \u201cunconscious battle\u201d\u00a0 in your mind between two things and the one that wins, is the one that you do. It is the short-term enjoyable that always wins over the long-time not so enjoyable.<\/p>\n
By understanding\u00a0these two forces may help you to make up your mind. Ask yourself: \u201cWhy do I need to have a career plan?\u201d Having the answer to the \u201cWHY\u201d question will help you to make the first step. If you do NOT have a good reason you will never do it. My advice is to find a career or activity that you like first.\u00a0 You do not have to do everything but you need to read something about that career to identify the skills that you need then take courses related to that career in the first year then move on to the next. By doing one step at a time it may help you to advance forward to a career plan for your future. \u00a0After all, it is your choice, your career, and your future and only you who can make the decision.<\/p>\n
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