M\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cTh\u1ea7y gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ra sao v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh b\u1ea5t k\u00ednh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1 l\u1edbp? Xin th\u1ea7y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00e1p: T\u00f4i hi\u1ebfm khi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch n\u00e0o trong l\u1edbp nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ednh. C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ch\u0103m nom t\u1edbi h\u1ecdc sinh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, v\u1eady v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a l\u1edbp, t\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi h\u1ecdc sinh v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0, t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i th\u00edch d\u1ea1y, t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn d\u1ea1y Khoa h\u1ecdc m\u00e1y t\u00ednh \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao nh\u1eefng n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mong \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1eeb h\u1ecd trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbp \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, ch\u0103m ch\u00fa trong b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng, \u0111\u1ecdc t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00ean l\u1edbp, th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m nhanh ch\u00f3ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ai, tham gia trong th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn tr\u00ean l\u1edbp v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng nhau v.v. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc trong l\u1edbp n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp n\u00e0o h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00f9ng nhau v\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1edbi tho\u1ea3 thu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y h\u1ecd \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i trong l\u1edbp.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, ki h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh x\u1eed t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tho\u1ea3 thu\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi l\u1edbp v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch v\u1edbi h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang t\u01b0 sau gi\u1edd l\u00ean l\u1edbp. T\u00f4i m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch, n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd t\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00ean t\u00f4i, l\u00ean h\u1ecd, l\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eebng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i y\u00ean t\u0129nh v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u00e0nh vi dai d\u1eb3ng th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o cho h\u1ecdc sinh r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u1edbp m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 cho c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng g\u1eedi m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng cho h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch r\u1eb1ng ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecd tu\u00e2n theo qui t\u1eafc ho\u1eb7c r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi l\u1edbp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quay l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdc sinh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang khi h\u1ecd ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i im l\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng trong l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh \u00edt th\u1eddi gian cho vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecdc sinh b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c phi\u00ean th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i c\u00f4ng khai cho h\u1ecdc sinh r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i tin t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00fang. Khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe, \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129, x\u1eed l\u00ed th\u00f4ng tin, h\u1ecd \u0111ang h\u1ecdc. Nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1edbi l\u1edbp t\u00f4i v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi l\u1edbp r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd t\u1edbi l\u1edbp \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe, h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, x\u1eed l\u00ed th\u00f4ng tin, v\u00e0 cho c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. T\u00f4i gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n ai kh\u00f4ng tham gia v\u00e0 g\u1ecdi t\u00ean h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tham gia. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0 chung cu\u1ed9c, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi cho c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng cho ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u00f3 bao h\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Theo c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc sinh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 n\u01a1i h\u1ecd sinh ra, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. L\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c b\u1eb1ng \u0111e do\u1ea1 h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 t\u1eeb bi h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadn c\u1ee9 trong l\u1edbp. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t h\u1ecd nh\u01b0ng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 sau. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t trong t\u00e2m l\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc sinh nh\u01b0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, ni\u1ec1m khao kh\u00e1t tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m nom t\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
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Students’ behaviors in class<\/p>\n
A teacher wrote to me: \u201cHow do you deal with students who are disrespectful and often disrupt the class? Please advise.<\/p>\n
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Answer: I rarely encounter any disruptive students in my class but I do know that there are complains among other teachers about students\u2019 behaviors that are rude and disrespectful. My view is if the teachers care about students and can facilitate a positive learning environment when students are collaborating with others and interact with the teachers then the issue of disrupting behavior can be avoided.<\/p>\n
On the first day of class, I share with my students about my personal view of being a professor, why I like to teach, why I choose to teach Computer Science at this school, and how my years working in the industry can provide them with many pieces of advice to help them build a successful career. I give them a specific list of behaviors that I would expect from them in the classroom such as come to class on time, be attentive during lecture, reading materials before coming to class, admitting mistakes quickly without blaming anyone, participate in class discussion and learning together etc. I also ask them about what do they want to learn in this class and what learning activities that they would like to have. We discuss together and come up with an agreement that I will teach them what they need and they will meet my expectation in class.<\/p>\n
Occasionally, when students do not behave accordingly, I would remind them that we have an agreement. If they continue to disrupt, I will ask them to leave the class and discuss the disruptive behavior with them privately after class. I describe what actions I find disruptive, ask if them why this has a negative effect on me, on them, on their classmates, and then tell them not to repeat that behavior in the future. Most students respond positively to these quietly and \u00a0calming conversations. But if the disruption becomes a persistent behavior then I confront it directly and tell the students that they are not in control of the class but I am. And it shows other students that I will take action to protect their learning. This also sends a clear message to the disruptive students that either they follow the rule or leave the classroom and do not come back.<\/p>\n
I believe that students often misbehave when they are bored and cannot sit quietly for long. But in my class, I spend little time for the lecture but most of the time for discussion so I always keep students busy. Most discussion sessions are challenging, require them to listen and thinking deeply . I tell the students openly that I know my questions are difficult but I believe they are all capable of\u00a0 answering them. When they are listening, thinking, processing the information they are learning. Many students come into my class believe that they cannot do this but I will not accept that. I tell the class that they go to class to learn and the only way to learn is to listen, ask questions, process the information, and give answers. I monitor students to identify who is not participating and call their name to make sure that they will participate. As long as they can answer the question, they will gain more confidence and eventually, we have a positive learning environment. Of course, in the beginning, I will start with easier, achievable questions and allow them opportunities for collaboration with friends before giving the answer. I also give feedback that includes a clear explanation of what is correct and what is not.<\/p>\n
In my view, some students go to college with bad behaviors because they have seen many bad behaviors from others, from their street where they come from, or even from their families. As teachers, we can respond to their behavior by either threatening them or by having a compassion toward them. If we react and get angry then we will get to an argument in class. Of course, we could use our authority to punish them but students\u2019 behavior will not change because there will be more bad behaviors later. But by explaining to promote the qualities deeply in our students\u2019 psyche such as their capacity for learning, their desire for integrity, their appetite for knowledge then the situation can be reversed. Students behavior will change if they know you care for them.<\/p>\n
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