Ng\u00e0y nay nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng, laptops, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t \u00edt b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecdc sinh trung h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft:<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh n\u00f3i: \u201cKhi b\u1ed1 em th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng em ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc, b\u1ed1 em c\u1ea5t laptop \u0111i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a em. Cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 laptop, em v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a em. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 em kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 laptop kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n.\u201d<\/p>\n
Khi nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng, vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i trong l\u1edbp \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o. C\u00f3 hai c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc: C\u1ea5m d\u00f9ng trong l\u1edbp hay b\u1ecf qua vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong l\u1edbp. Cho d\u00f9 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u1ea5m h\u1ecd, nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh d\u1eabu sao v\u1eabn d\u00f9ng ch\u00fang. M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i: \u201cEm kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00ean vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a em. Th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 n\u00ean h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c lu\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd, ch\u00fang em v\u1eabn g\u1eedi tin nh\u1eafn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cNh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c em ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m Facebook trong gi\u1edd l\u00ean l\u1edbp? C\u00e1c em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1edbi sau gi\u1edd l\u00ean l\u1edbp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cTh\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, v\u00e0 Twitter quan tr\u1ecdng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ch\u00fang em. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang em trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cNh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau b\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i sau gi\u1edd l\u00ean l\u1edbp ch\u1ee9?\u201d C\u1ea3 nh\u00f3m c\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh n\u00f3i: \u201cNg\u00e0y nay ch\u00fang em kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i n\u1eefa, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eafn tin. N\u00f3 nhanh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i truy v\u1ea5n: \u201cNh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao l\u00e0 Facebook v\u00e0 Instagram?\u201d M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea3o v\u00e0 ch\u00fang em kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 ch\u00fang.\u201d T\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: \u201cC\u00e1c em b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec?\u201d C\u00f4 b\u00e9 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cPh\u1ea7n l\u1edbn b\u1ea1n em \u0111ang chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u00ean tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn. Em mu\u1ed1n \u1edf trong n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang em \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i ra ngo\u00e0i.\u201d T\u00f4i bi\u1ec7n lu\u1eadn: \u201cTh\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1c em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c em li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ki\u1ec3m Facebook?” C\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng cho ch\u00fang em v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i ra ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cEm d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0o t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n facebook c\u1ee7a em?\u201d C\u1ea3 nh\u00f3m c\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i: \u201cD\u1ea1 nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u00fang em l\u00ean tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd, m\u1ecdi l\u00fac.\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d\u00a0 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i c\u01b0\u1eddi to: \u201cH\u1ecd qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang em \u0111ang l\u00e0m.\u201d M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cKhi h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang em d\u00f9ng laptop, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang em \u0111ang h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang em \u0111ang l\u00e0m.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cC\u00e1c em c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ch\u00e1n v\u1edbi Facebook hay Instagram kh\u00f4ng?\u201d M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cL\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 th\u1ebf x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea3o.\u00a0 Ch\u00fang em \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 thao, t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i tin t\u1ee9c. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang em chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cBao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c em \u0111ang d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 C\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn m\u1edf cho \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang (MOOCs) hay c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc tr\u00ean Youtube?\u201d H\u1ecdc sinh tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cCh\u00fang em c\u00f3 truy nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang em quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang em h\u1ecdc x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng websites, t\u1ea1o ra blogs, h\u1ecdc l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb MOOCs nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang em th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 b\u1ecf. Ch\u00fang em th\u00edch \u0111i theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c?\u201d T\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: \u201cC\u00e1c em \u0111i theo c\u00e1i g\u00ec?\u201d T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cTh\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang em \u0111i theo c\u00e1c ng\u00f4i sao th\u1ec3 thao, ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn m\u00e0 ch\u00fang em theo.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh trung h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc ki\u1ebfm hai l\u01b0\u1ee1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p \u00edch l\u1ee3i l\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn h\u1ecdc sinh tr\u1ebb theo c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 “th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9c\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. C\u1ea5t laptop, hay c\u1ea5m h\u1ecd truy nh\u1eadp website n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn hay ch\u00fang \u0111ang chia s\u1ebb g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Ng\u00e0y nay b\u1ea3o ban, c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n, v\u00e0 ra l\u1ec7nh cho con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang, hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i tin v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh ch\u00f3ng n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n. C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9ng n\u00f3. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch trao \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb em ngh\u0129 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i theo b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang hay ai \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i thay v\u00ec b\u1ecf qua ch\u00fang. Khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ebfn, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. N\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 cho \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
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Conversation with High school students<\/p>\n
Today many students have mobile phones, laptops, and they are active on social media but very few parents know what they do. Last month, I had several opportunities to talk with high school students. These are things that they told me and I think every parent needs to know:<\/p>\n
A student said: \u201cWhen my father saw that I play video games and not studying, he took the laptop away. He did not know that I can still play video games at my friends\u2019 places. Even without the laptop, I can still use my mobile phone. My parent does not know that mobile phone is another laptop, only smaller.\u201d<\/p>\n
When more students have a mobile phone, the use of the phone in class has become a problem to teachers. There are two views about mobile devices in the classroom: To forbid the use in class or to ignore their use in class. Even teachers forbid them, many students are still using them anyway. A student, told me: \u201cI do not think cell phone use has a negative impact on my studying. Teachers should focus on the teaching and not law enforcement. If they do not pay attention, we still texting anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n
I asked: \u201cBut why do you have to check Facebook during the class? Can you wait until later?\u201d A student explained: \u201cYou do not understand how important Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, and Twitter are to us. That is the way we communicate with others.\u201d I asked: \u201cBut can you talk to each other by phone after class?\u201d The whole group laughed, a student said: \u201cToday we do not talk anymore, everybody text. It is faster and easier.\u201d<\/p>\n
I questioned: \u201cBut why Facebook and Instagram?\u201d A student said: \u201cThere are many things happen in the virtual world and we do not want to miss them.\u201d I was surprised: \u201cWhat are you missing?\u201d She explained: \u201cMost of my friends are sharing things with others online. I want to be in that conversation. We all want to be connected and not being left out.\u201d I argued: \u201cThen you do not have time to study if you keep checking Facebook? She said: \u201cYou do not understand that connection is very important to us and the feeling of being left out is worse.\u201d I asked: \u201cHow much time do you spend daily on your facebook account?\u201d The whole group laughed, and someone said: \u201cA lot, we go online daily, hourly, all the time.\u201d I asked: \u201cDoes your parent know about it?\u201d\u00a0 They all laughed again: \u201cThey are too busy and do not know what we are doing.\u201d A student explained: \u201cWhen they see us using a laptop, they think we are studying. They have no idea what we are doing.\u201d<\/p>\n
I asked: \u201cHave you ever getting bored with Facebook or Instagram?\u201d A student answered: \u201cHow can we be bored? There are so many things happen in the virtual world.\u00a0 We read everything from music to sports, from movie stars to all kind of news. Sometimes we share our opinion about certain events.\u201d I asked: \u201cHow many of you are using online education courses such as Massive Open Online Courses (MOOCs) or tutorials on Youtube?\u201d Students answered: \u201cWe do access some online courses if we are interested in the subjects. Many of us learn to build websites, create blogs, learn to programme from MOOCs but most of us getting bored and quit. We prefer to follow others?\u201d I was surprised: \u201cWhat do you follow?\u201d They all laughed: \u201cYou may not know these people, we follow sports stars, movies stars.There are many special personalities online that we follow.\u201d<\/p>\n
I know that these high school students are young and not mature enough to understand the consequences of their actions. Technology is a two-edged sword, it can provide significant benefits but also can lead young students to harmful ways. I think every parent needs to learn more about the \u201cDigital generation\u201d and be able to discuss with them about these issues. Taking away the laptop, or forbid them to access certain websites are not effective. Most parents have no idea what their children are doing online or what are they sharing there. I know that parents are busy but they need to spend time interacting with their children, talk to them and discuss with them about things that concern them. Today telling, forbidding, and ordering children are things of the past. What young people need is someone who can listen to them, understand them, and share time with them.<\/p>\n
I believe the issue of young people being occupied with online social media and the desire to be connected are symptoms of being isolated and loneliness in a fast-changing environment where everybody is busy. Technology is neither good or bad, it is how we use it. Social media is neither good or bad, it is a new way to communicate. If the children think their parents do not know anything about technology, they will not ask for guidance and may follow their friends or someone online and could be leading to harmful ways. I think every parent should learn more about these social media issues instead of ignoring them. When parents understand their children\u2019s needs and willing to discuss with them openly and compassionately, it can help improve the relationships . If parents want their children to use technology for their benefits, they have to learn to listen more and change the way they talk to their children about these issues.<\/p>\n
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