\u0110\u00eam h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n t\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1o s\u01b0, cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: \u201cSinh vi\u00ean l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean, h\u1ecd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 nhau, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u0103m h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c l\u01b0\u1eddi.\u201d T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cNh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t sinh vi\u00ean ng\u00e0y nay v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi hay hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.\u201d<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m?” T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cNg\u00e0y nay nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn sinh vi\u00ean t\u1edbi l\u1edbp \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai t\u1edbi mu\u1ed9n, h\u1ecd bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng. Hi\u1ec7n th\u1eddi, nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean t\u1edbi l\u1edbp mu\u1ed9n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng. V\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 di \u0111\u1ed9ng, nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean \u0111ang b\u1ecb sao l\u00e3ng b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed7 k\u00ec thi. T\u00f4i lo ngh\u0129, l\u00e0m sao h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi h\u1ecd \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y? B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cN\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a anh.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cL\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. C\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 d\u1ea1y h\u1ecd thi \u0111\u1ed7 k\u00ec thi v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p m\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn h\u1ecd c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p trong ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd l\u00e0m trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c sinh vi\u00ean v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong c\u1ea3 ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.\u201d B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m cao qu\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 anh \u0111ang l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.\u201d T\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cTrong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, sinh vi\u00ean h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Ng\u00e0y nay, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00fang trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. N\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/p>\n
Trong l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 cam k\u1ebft, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, trung th\u1ef1c, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1cs, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n khi h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, xem youtube, v\u00e0 nh\u1eafn tin trong l\u1edbp c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0. T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edf laptop \u0111\u1ec3 xem youtube hay g\u1eedi tin nh\u1eafn. \u00d4ng ch\u1ee7 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?” B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cH\u1ecd bi\u1ebft h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9.\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cV\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng? N\u1ebfu c\u00f4ng ti c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n v\u00ec h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.\u201d B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd: \u201cNh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng?\u201d T\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cSao kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 tri th\u1ee9c.\u201d<\/p>\n
Trong l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc sinh vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n trong th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn tr\u00ean l\u1edbp, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng sao ch\u00e9p hay gian l\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ai n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00ed v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi k\u00e9m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd? B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn t\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong l\u1edbp, c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb s\u1edbm h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1edbi khi n\u00f3 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5.\u00a0Xem nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, t\u00f4i hi\u1ebfm khi ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1edbi gian l\u1eadn b\u00e0i thi hay sao ch\u00e9p b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. V\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn t\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sinh vi\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec t\u1edbi l\u1edbp mu\u1ed9n: \u201cEm l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 em \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi l\u1edbp \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd v\u00e0 em ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a em.\u201d Ng\u00e0y nay hi\u1ebfm khi sinh vi\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sinh vi\u00ean bi\u1ebft tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Sau r\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o l\u1edbp r\u1eb1ng \u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, khi c\u00e1c em t\u1edbi tr\u1ec5, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c em kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef em. Khi c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00ed do, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng. L\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho sinh vi\u00ean ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u0129 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p trong ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n
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Guiding behavior<\/p>\n
Last night I had a dinner with several professors, our conversation focused on education and college students. A friend said: \u201cStudents are students, they all the same, the only difference is some study harder and others are lazy.\u201d I said: \u201cBut there is one thing that distinguishes today\u2019s students from students ten or twenty years ago in term of responsibility.\u201d<\/p>\n
My friend seemed surprised: \u201cWhy responsibility? I answered: \u201cToday many students are not responsible for their behavior. For example, in the past, most students came to class on time, if anyone arrived late, they always apologized and felt embarrassed. Currently ,\u00a0many students came to class late, but they did not seem to care. I have to remind them about arrived on time and pay attention to the lectures. With mobile technology, many students are being distracted by mobile phones and social media, so they do not pay attention to study. Some only put minimum effort just to pass the exam. I am worried, how will they ever succeed when they go to work with these behaviors? My friend asked: \u201cIf they do not learn, that is their problem, not yours.\u201d<\/p>\n
I explained: \u201cAs educators, we cannot let it continues. My views are not about teaching them to pass exams and get a degree but guide them to be responsible for their education, professionals in their career, and contribute to the society. I often explain that what they do in school could become what they do at work, and in lives. I think the classroom is the place where we educate students and preparing them for their lives in both workplace and society.\u201d My friend laughed: \u201cThat is a noble concept, but I think you are doing more than necessary.\u201d I explained: \u201cIn the past, students learned from their family and surrounding\u00a0 environment for what they could and could not do. Today, most parents are busy, and the lack of proper behavior in the surrounding environment has led many to become irresponsibility. If the elementary and high school do not teach that, then college is the last place that we can do something.\u201d<\/p>\n
In my class, I discuss with students about commitment, humility, honesty, integrity, and compassion. I also discuss professional attitudes that they need when they work. For example, watching youtube, and texting during class means a lack of respect for other students and the professor. Imagine at work, some workers open the laptop to watch youtube or send text messages. How does the boss react? My friend laughed: \u201cThey know the consequence for doing that.\u201d I asked: \u201cThen why we cannot do that in school? If the company can fire a worker for inappropriate behavior, a teacher could give a bad grade for students for the same behavior too. The problem is many do not do that because they do not think it is their job.\u201d My friend disagreed: \u201cBut is it our job?\u201d I answered: \u201c Why not? We are educators. Our job is educating, not just transfer the knowledge.\u201d<\/p>\n
In my class, I often remind students about being humility during class discussion, being responsible for their own work by not copy or cheat. If no one talks to them about ethics and integrity then how can we blame them for their bad behavior? By discussing responsibility in the classroom, what is appropriate and what is not, we can fix some of the problems early than wait until it is too late.\u00a0As a result, I rarely have to deal with cheating on exams or copying homework. Since we discuss responsibility, some students begin to apologize for being late in class: \u201cI am sorry that I did not arrive to class on time as I am responsible for my own study.\u201d It is rare today for students to do that, but at least some students know their responsibility. Afterward, I told the class that at work, when you often come in late, it is a signal that you do not want to go to work and it would be a reason for not keeping you. When workers lost their job, there are many reasons, but most often come from the observation of managers on specific behavior whether it is acceptable or not. As educators, we should not just focus on teaching, but guiding too. If we can help students develop the needed skills and proper attitudes so they can be professionals in their career and contributors to our society, we are fulfilling our responsibility.<\/p>\n
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