M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cEm t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p b\u1ed1n n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng v\u1eabn th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p. B\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a em kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Hi\u1ec7n th\u1eddi, em v\u1eabn \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 em, nh\u01b0ng em kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi em. Em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf v\u00e0 cay \u0111\u1eafng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em. Em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc blog c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Xin th\u1ea7y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.\u201d<\/p>\n
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T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t email c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. Trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i b\u00e1o cung c\u1ea5p l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap \u00edch n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u00fang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 hi v\u1ecdng. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cay \u0111\u1eafng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean tr\u00ean blog c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00fat \u00edt may m\u1eafn, v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n thu l\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m l\u00e0 KH\u00d3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 do t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1edbp v\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Ng\u00e0y nay qui tr\u00ecnh “b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p-t\u1edbi-ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p” kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u1edbi th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u00e0 qua th\u1eddi gian, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra \u0111am m\u00ea m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
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Finding a job<\/p>\n
A person wrote to me: \u201cI graduated four years ago but still unemployed. My degree is worthless, and my college education did not help me at all. Currently, I still stay with my parents knowing that they are disappointed with me, but I do not know what to do with my life. I feel miserable and bitter about myself. I have read your blog on career advice, but do not know how to start. Please advise.\u201d<\/p>\n
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I wrote back to him in a personal email but want to share with you about my view on this situation. For many years, I have written many articles offering career advice, but they only help if people who read them do something about it. That means they can use my advice as a guide and take action to improve their career. It is essential that they must set a career direction and do something to achieve it, reading alone does not help. No one can live their lives just by reading career advice and hope. It is essential to work hard if you want to get out of your parents’ house and be independent.<\/p>\n
You cannot continue to stay home with your parents and feel bitter about yourself. You may follow advice on my blog to find a job, any job, regardless whether it suits your education or not. What you need is to bravely go to work as you are capable of doing something, and with a little bit of luck, and the power not to give up, you will get a job. It may not be what you want, but at least you will get a job that helps you to gain confidence and feel valuable. I know that finding job is HARD, but it is not impossible.<\/p>\n
The problem that you stay unemployed for many years is probably due to your indecisive. Maybe you are unwilling to settle for any job that does not fit your degree or a typical career for a college graduate. Today the \u201cdegree to-career\u201d process does not work anymore. You must learn to adapt to the changing environment, to the job market by changing your mind. When you go to work, you will feel more comfortable that you are a productive person and overtimes, you will find your new passions.<\/p>\n
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