	{"id":4676,"date":"2015-02-03T10:28:28","date_gmt":"2015-02-03T03:28:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=4676"},"modified":"2015-02-03T10:28:28","modified_gmt":"2015-02-03T03:28:28","slug":"khi-sinh-vien-khuyen-nguoi-khac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=4676","title":{"rendered":"Khi sinh vi\u00ean khuy\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Khi v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, m\u1ecdi sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. L\u00e0m ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u1ed1t, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t. L\u00e0m ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a k\u00e9m v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thui ch\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1ecdi sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea7y hi v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng sau v\u00e0i n\u0103m, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00f4i l\u1ea5t l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ca s\u0129 hay ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c m\u00f4n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh. V\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Ng\u00e0y nay t\u00f4i th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i: \u201cCh\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp d\u1ec5 n\u01a1i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp d\u1ec5 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p. Sau b\u1ed1n n\u0103m, t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c d\u1ec5 v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0i n\u0103m r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i. Trong th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea1nh tranh cao n\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y &#8220;b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p&#8221; ch\u1ea3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec m\u1ea5y.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPh\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u01b0\u1edbc ao. Mang thai v\u00e0 b\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n trong c\u1ea3 qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Khi v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi cho n\u00ean th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1eebng th\u1eed. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh\u201d c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 sai 80%. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c bi\u1ebft &#8220;ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o&#8221; l\u00e0 g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft &#8220;ngh\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o&#8221; l\u00e0 g\u00ec. \u0110i theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i. C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd theo sau. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u00f5 v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ti\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i nghe &#8220;tin \u0111\u1ed3n&#8221; r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh r\u1ed3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ra nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0 &#8220;Ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nhanh gi\u1ea7u&#8221;. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau khi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc? Lo\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea7u. T\u00f4i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p khi cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. Sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Hi\u1ec7n th\u1eddi t\u00f4i lo ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb thay th\u1ebf b\u1edfi ATM. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc kinh doanh.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cV\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian xa kh\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u1edbi, t\u1ef1 do m\u1edbi, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd qu\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Khi t\u00f4i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i coi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n. T\u00f4i b\u1ecf qua l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea9n th\u1ea9n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1i c\u00f3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 tham gia v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ea3ng nguy hi\u1ec3m, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c v\u00e0 ma tu\u00fd. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ph\u00ed ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i kh\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i. M\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a k\u00e9m nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i: \u201cNgh\u0129 t\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cay \u0111\u1eafng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cB\u1ea1n v\u00e0o &#8220;tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i&#8221; v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ec5 v\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn &#8220;l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i&#8221; v\u00ec d\u1ec5 qua c\u00e1c l\u1edbp. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 &#8220;b\u1eb1ng v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i\u201d, \u201cvi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i\u201d v\u1edbi \u201cl\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i\u201d nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cay \u0111\u1eafng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n? V\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u201cv\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i\u201d th\u00ec b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i theo \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t khi l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 sau trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mong \u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng theo t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;English version&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When students advice others<\/p>\n<p>When entering college, every student is facing choices and whatever they make will affect their future. Making good choice, they may get good career opportunity. Making bad choice and they may ruin their future. Every first-year students come to school full of hope but after few years, some admitted that they regret on what they did and wish that they could have made better decision. Following are their stories:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am sorry that I did not plan my career carefully because I select a field of study based on my own illusion. I want to be a singer or movies star just to impress my friends. I choose courses that are relating to my wishes such as drama, music, arts, and act as I am a movies star. Basically I cheat myself and waste my time in college. Today I am unemployed with no future and having difficulty with my life. My advice: \u201cBe honest with yourself and plan your future accordingly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMany fields of study are difficult. I do not want to study hard so I select easy field of study where I can enjoy my time in college. There are many easy fields of study that you do not have to do much but still graduate with a degree. After four years, I graduated but could not find a job but I was not the only one as there were many graduates like me who selected easy fields and enjoyed a few years then have a whole life to regret. In this highly competitive market, it is too late to realize that you have made a big mistake as I wasted my time and my parents\u2019 money for a piece of \u201cdegree paper\u201d that does not mean much.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMost college romances do not end up in something that you wish. Being pregnant and quit school is the most humiliated thing that can hurt you for the rest of your life. When go to college, think career first as relationship can wait. You cannot have both at the same time so do not even try. If you meet someone and think \u201cThis is the perfect person for me\u201d you are probably 80% wrong. You do not really know what a \u201cperfect person\u201d is but you do know what a \u201cperfect job\u201d is. Follow your instinct on what you know well. Chances are you will have a good career, bright future and everything will follow. I know it well because I have been there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI select a field of study based solely on money. I want to be rich so I listen to \u201crumors\u201d that by study finance then work in stock market trading, I can make a lot of money. Now I know that there is no such thing a \u201cGet rich quick job\u201d. I did not research on how much I could make as a college graduate? What kind of job a college graduate could get? I believe that if I can get a stock trading job, I could get rich. I graduated when the financial crisis happened with millions of people lost their job so I had no chance. After many years being unemployed and live off my parents\u2019 supports, I get a job as bank teller with a minimum salary, a job that does not require a college degree. Currently I am worry that my job may be replaced by the ATM. If I know this, I never study business.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGo to college means you spend a lot of time away from your family. As you are busy with new friends, new freedom, new activities you will forget about your family and people who care for you the most. When I went to college, I considered myself as an adult and I can do anything that I wanted. I ignored my parents\u2019 advices of being careful with people that I am associated with. I did not choose friends carefully and involved in dangerous activities of parties, music and drugs. I did not do well in school, wasted my parents\u2019 money. I was dismissed from school which was a humiliated experience for me and my family. Every university has students like me who make bad choice but now regret. My advice: \u201cThink about your family, your parents and do not make the same mistake. You go to school to learn but do not learn bitter lesson like me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou go to an \u201cOK school\u201d because it is easy to get in. You select an \u201cOK field of study\u201d because it is easy to pass classes. You have an \u201cOK degree\u201d, an \u201cOK job\u201d with an \u201cOK salary\u201d but is that what you really want? Why do you feel bitter when others have better jobs, better salary, and better life? Basically you are willing to select something that is just \u201cOK\u201d then you deserve it. If you do not want something like that then you must believe in yourself enough to go after what you want. There is no difference as college students but there is a very big difference later in life when others have everything that you want but cannot get. This is an advice from someone who made this mistake and I wish you do not follow me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Khi v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, m\u1ecdi sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-loi-khuyen-cho-sinh-vien"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4676"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4676\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4677,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4676\/revisions\/4677"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}