M\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cM\u1ecdi n\u0103m em \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng em ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i n\u0103m, em v\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a em \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn v\u00ec em ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean trung b\u00ecnh. Em lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em. L\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho n\u0103m nay kh\u00e1c \u0111i? Xin th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap cho.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00e1p: Th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a em v\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi thanh ni\u00ean b\u1edfi v\u00ec em mong \u0111\u1ee3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u01b0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec em v\u1eabn \u0111ang l\u1edbn l\u00ean, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o em c\u00f2n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, v\u00ec l\u00ed do \u0111\u00fang, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n
Trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, em \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng gi\u1eef n\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng n\u0103m nay, em n\u00ean vi\u1ebft n\u00f3 ra v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u em mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. L\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft ra r\u1ea1o n\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a em c\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u00ed m\u1eadt. N\u0103m nay em c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a em; \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a em t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p. Em c\u1ea7n chia s\u1ebb ch\u00fang v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o s\u01b0, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 em v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a em c\u00f3 t\u00ednh nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 em ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m cho \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a em th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean em ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1 m\u1ecdi l\u1edbp, \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ecbch ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt nghi\u00eam ng\u1eb7t cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o em mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m em mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. Em c\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp trong l\u1edbp. Em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a em. Em c\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u, em s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean tin t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1n. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u00e0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00fang. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. Theo d\u00f5i ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a em b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef ghi ch\u00e9p h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a em. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a em v\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean. Th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean em l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, v\u00e0 em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 hi sinh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd gi\u1ecfi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o qua l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0a n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0o. T\u1ed5ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, chuy\u00ean c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 hi sinh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00e1ch b\u1ea1ch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac em ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, khi em ho\u00e0i nghi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a em. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0i nghi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i em. Khi m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3, khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, em ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh cho n\u00f3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a em. Em kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng em th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec em th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n
Qui t\u1eafc h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp chung l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 em ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u hai gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u1edbp cho m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u1edbp. Cho n\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng em \u0111ang h\u1ecdc 12 m\u00f4n. S\u1ed1 gi\u1edd c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 em ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh ra l\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 10 gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 l\u1edbp, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 20 gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho c\u00e1c nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u1edbp. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd em d\u00e0nh \u00edt nh\u1ea5t n\u0103m gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho l\u1edbp. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 35 gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n xem nh\u01b0 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho l\u1edbp em v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m to\u00e0n th\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt m\u00e0 em ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo v\u00ec qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn ra ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0a n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, em ph\u1ea3i l\u00e2p k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a em s\u1edbm nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc em. Thay v\u00ec lang thang t\u1eeb l\u1edbp n\u1ecd sang l\u1edbp kia, v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra cho em, em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a em v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tu\u00e2n theo b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p hay b\u1ea3n l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a em. Ng\u00e0y nay gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a em v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 m\u00e0 em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi. Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a em, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
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A new year advice<\/p>\n
A student wrote to me: \u201cEvery new year I told myself that I must change to be better but by the end of the year, I am still the same person. My grade in school has not improved as I am just an average student. I am worry about my future. How can make this year different? Please help.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Answer: Your frustration for not be able to change is common, especially for young person because you expect change to happen fast and it did not happen. But change will happens because you are still growing, learning and maturing. As long as you are sincere to change for the better, for the right reason, toward a positive direction, it will happen.<\/p>\n
In the past, you told yourself about change but kept it in your mind but this year, you should write it down about what you want to change. The written word creates a reality, a presence, unlike your thoughts that are secret. This year you should also let others know about your intention to study harder; your grade to be better, and plan your future by creates a career plan. You need to share them with friends, with professors, and with your parents as it will make your desire more seriously.<\/p>\n
Additionally you must take actions to make your wishes become reality. First you must attend all classes, set a firm schedule to study and maintain a strict discipline for yourself on what skills you like to strengthen and the grade you like to achieve. You need to be associated with students who are motivated to learn in your class. You need to read more to broaden your knowledge. The more you learn, the more confident you will become. When encountering obstacles, do not give up but try to find ways to get over them. Start with something simple to develop the momentum before handle more important things. Track your progress by keeping a daily notes on your learning. Try to help others by sharing your ideas and help them to get motivated. Seeing others do well will motivate you to do the same.<\/p>\n
A good grade requires hard work, and you cannot expect to get good grade without efforts and sacrifice. Successful graduates get good jobs because of how well they have proved themselves through their hard work in college. They have demonstrated that they have what it takes to succeed. I believe that most students can be successful in college if they are willing to put in the efforts. The amount of hard work, dedication, and sacrifice is what separates those who are successful from those who are not. Of course, there will be time when you do not think you can do it, when you doubt your ability to succeed. This is normal, but do not let these doubts defeat you. When a course seems too hard, when the work seems too much, you must give it your best effort. You do not want to live with the idea that you fail because you do not even give yourself a chance to succeed.<\/p>\n
The general study rule is that you should spend a minimum of two hours working on assignments outside of class for every hour that you spend in class. So imagine that you are taking 12 units. This number of unit\u2019s hours requires that you spend at least 10 hours a week attending class, along with at least 20 hours a week working on assignments outside of class. And you probably spend at least five hours a week getting ready for class. That’s 35 hours a week as a minimum amount of time you need to devote to your classes and that is almost like a full-time job. That is the discipline that you must follow as too many students go through school never realizing their potential, and never put in any efforts to achieve their dreams.<\/p>\n
As a college student, you must plan your career as soon as possible then taking important steps toward achieving it. It is so important to realize the possibilities and the choices in front of you. Instead of wandering from class to class without direction and depending on whatever happen to you, you can put in your efforts to determine your future career by following a career plan or a road map for your education journey. Today a college education can take you into a career that you really care about. The choice is yours, and it is important to realize that.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cM\u1ecdi n\u0103m em \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng em ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i n\u0103m, em … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4644","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-loi-khuyen-cho-sinh-vien"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4644","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4644"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4644\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4645,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4644\/revisions\/4645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4644"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4644"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4644"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}