H\u00f4m qua t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c email n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n
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Th\u01b0a gi\u00e1o s\u01b0,<\/p>\n
Em t\u00ecm ra blog c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 em \u01b0\u1edbc ao l\u00e0 em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi em v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean tr\u00ean b\u00e1o ch\u00ed t\u1eeb ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 em kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0m thui ch\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi em: “Ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch, \u0111i theo tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.\u201d Em \u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 em ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi 18 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 “\u00e2m nh\u1ea1c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi” cho l\u1ed7 tai cho n\u00ean em \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u1ec1u em y\u00eau th\u00edch: V\u0103n h\u1ecdc. L\u00ed do em ch\u1ecdn n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u1edf trung h\u1ecdc, em \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t m\u00f4n v\u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i b\u00e1o cho t\u1edd b\u00e1o c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng cho n\u00ean em ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng em gi\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 vi\u1ebft. M\u1eb7c cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 em r\u1eb1ng em h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, em c\u1ee9 kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng \u0111i theo m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a em. Em tin r\u1eb1ng em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u0103n h\u1ecdc. \u1ea2o t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y che m\u1eb7t em m\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi khi em t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed nh\u00e2n v\u0103n h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “ngh\u1ec1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi” nh\u01b0 em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u00ean. Sau hai n\u0103m t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p, em t\u1eeb b\u1ecf v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ea5p trong m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a em.<\/p>\n
Khi em \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y n\u01a1i th\u1ea7y g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho sinh vi\u00ean gi\u1eef c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, em g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f3c. Em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y: \u201cB\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i theo tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n\u201d cho n\u00ean em vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1m \u01a1n th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 em mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1edbi c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd \u0111\u0103ng n\u00f3 trong blog c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y. Em mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb: “C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y cho\u00e1ng cho b\u1ea1n.\u201d T\u00f4i v\u1eabn nh\u1edb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi t\u00f4i 18 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 “\u0111i theo tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh.” T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 m\u00ecnh “\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.” T\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch s\u1eb5n m\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi khi n\u00f3 g\u00e2y cho\u00e1ng cho t\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1edbi hai con nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi khi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean khi t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang r\u1eb1ng \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn ngh\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft v\u00ec tr\u00e1i tim c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n.\u201d Ng\u00e0y nay, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd khuy\u00ean sinh vi\u00ean ch\u1ecdn khoa h\u1ecdc, c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, k\u0129 ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0 to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc v\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u00f4n kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, v\u0103n h\u1ecdc, kinh doanh hay s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc sau, sau khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m. \u0110\u1eebng nghe theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00ec ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n th\u1ebf. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho n\u00ean d\u1eebng m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng l\u1ea1i \u0111i. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng sau khi t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p, ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd theo sau. \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i theo m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, cho n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u1eafc cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u0103m 2008;<\/p>\n
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Advice from a graduate<\/p>\n
Yesterday I received this email and I want to share with you:<\/p>\n
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Dear professor,<\/p>\n
I found your blog and I wish that I have read your advices many years ago when I went to college. At that time, there was an advice in a newspaper from someone that I did not remember but it ruined my life: “Select a field of study that you love, follows your heart, and you will enjoy a wonderful career for the rest of your life.\u201d I wish that I had never read it but for 18 years old, it was \u201cwonderful music\u201d to my ears so I selected what I love: Literature. The reason I selected it because in high school, I did well in literature classes and have written several articles for the school newspaper so I thought that I was good at writing. Despite my parents\u2019 advice that I study something else, I insisted to follow my dream. I believed that I could become a famous writer with many novels, maybe get a literature prize. This illusion put a blanket on my face until I graduated with a Bachelor\u2019s degree in Literature but could not find the \u201cwonderful career\u201d as I was advised. After two years of looking for job and being unemployed, I gave up and got a low paying sale job in a small store, a job that had nothing to do with my education.<\/p>\n
When I read your career planning articles where you suggested students to balance their interests with the practical aspect of finding a job, I almost cried. I felt strongly about your advice: \u201cYou can follow your heart but using your head\u201d so I wrote this letter to thank you and I wanted to share a few things with other college students, if you would post it in your blog. I wanted to say to young college students: “You do not know anything about life until you face it and it will shock you.\u201d I still remember the feeling when I was 18 years old and read the advice of \u201cfollow your heart.\u201d I told myself “This is what I want to do for the rest of my life.” I thought that I had my career already planned out until it shocked me but I have learned since.<\/p>\n
As an adult with two young children, I cannot wait until they grow up as I will tell them that \u201cThey must select their career based on their head first because their heart can wait. They must learn to be practical by go to school, learn something, work hard, do whatever they need to succeed, get a job and build a career then only then they can follow their heart to do whatever they want.\u201d Today, I would advise students to select science, technology, engineering and mathematics because other subjects like arts, literature, business or drama can be learned later, after they get a job. Do not listen to others who advise you about selecting the subject that you love because getting a job and building a strong career is not that simple. Your love of an impractical subject will not lead you to happiness so stop dreaming. If I could tell you that after I graduated, get a good job is the only thing that you will need. The happiness will follow. Do not compare yourself with others and do not follow anyone else’s dream. Each of us has our own journeys in life, so just make sure yours is important. School work is never easy and learning never ends but you will be much happier by getting a good job.<\/p>\n
A failed graduate in 2008;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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