{"id":3405,"date":"2013-07-21T11:26:11","date_gmt":"2013-07-21T04:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=3405"},"modified":"2013-07-21T11:26:11","modified_gmt":"2013-07-21T04:26:11","slug":"loi-khuyen-cho-con-gai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=3405","title":{"rendered":"L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho con g\u00e1i"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i: \u201cCon g\u00e1i t\u00f4i s\u1ebd v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc sang n\u0103m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i lo v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn trong nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ea7n li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc kinh doanh hay thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i n\u00e0o s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho n\u00f3 v\u00e0 cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i. Xin th\u1ea7y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00e1p: Ng\u00e0y nay th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 n\u01a1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ra l\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, m\u1ecdi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd v\u00e0 suy tho\u00e1i kinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd lo l\u1eafng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd \u01b0a th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u00e0y nay thanh ni\u00ean c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y n\u1eefa. V\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 tr\u00ean Internet, m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n tin t\u1ee9c h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c gian nan h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n trong ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea1nh tranh n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc Qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh, ch\u00e1u ch\u1eafc c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00ed do. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00ec ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 l\u00ed do r\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. \u00c9p con c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n KH\u00d4NG ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t KH\u00d4NG BAO GI\u1edc n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m. Cho d\u00f9 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 nghe b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u00e0 ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch? \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m? V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn m\u1edf n\u01a1i c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1eafng nghe ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng n\u00e0o. Sau r\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, d\u00f9 ch\u00e1u h\u1ecdc Qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh hay C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean k\u0129 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u trong kinh doanh, c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00e1u ch\u1ecdn l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o, ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin v\u00ec m\u1ecdi doanh nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ec1u d\u00f9ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u00e1 c\u00e1c qui tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i, c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u00e0 trong m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m g\u00ec, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin. Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tr\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec1u y\u00eau c\u1ea7u k\u0129 n\u0103ng, KH\u00d4NG ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec l\u00e0m n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng ch\u00e1u h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e1u th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00e1u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng trong ngh\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u01b0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, k\u0129 n\u0103ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i, k\u0129 n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 – k\u0129 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong b\u1ed1n hay n\u0103m n\u0103m n\u1eefa v\u00ec lu\u1eadt cung c\u1ea7u s\u1ebd x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m hay kh\u00f4ng khi ch\u00e1u t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p. N\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p hay l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00ec ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 lo. Trong th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ee3i \u00fd tu\u1ef3 ch\u1ecdn th\u1ee9 ba hay k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch d\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng. C\u00f3 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed5 h\u1ee3p c\u1ea3 doanh nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin t\u00ean l\u00e0: Qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed h\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin (ISM) h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c doanh nghi\u1ec7p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y nay n\u01a1i sinh vi\u00ean h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed h\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng doanh nghi\u1ec7p. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ch\u00e1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch linh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ch\u00e1u th\u00edch. Ch\u00e1u v\u1eabn h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c m\u00f4n kinh doanh, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin nh\u01b0 qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb c\u01a1 s\u1edf d\u1eef li\u1ec7u, khai ph\u00e1 d\u1eef li\u1ec7u, trinh s\u00e1t doanh nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 Big Data. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y, ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i nh\u01b0 ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng, c\u00f4ng ti t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, c\u00f4ng ti ti\u1ebfp th\u1ecb V\u00c0 c\u00f4ng ti c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin, c\u00f4ng ti d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n m\u00e2y hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f4ng ti ph\u1ea7n m\u1ec1m. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ef3 ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0 ch\u00e1u n\u00ean nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u00eam v\u00ec ch\u00e1u ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a ch\u00e1u th\u00edch c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Ch\u00e1u ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 k\u0129 n\u0103ng trong c\u1ea3 hai khu v\u1ef1c, ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

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Advice to a daughter<\/p>\n

A mother wrote to me: \u201cMy daughter will go to college next year and wants to study business administration. My husband worries about the job opportunity of this field and wants her to study information technology instead. We have discussed for several weeks whether we should allow her to study business or convince her to study information technology. I do not know which would be best for her and for our family. Please advice.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Answer: Today career discussion between parents and children is differing from the past where parents give order and children often obey. Of course, every parent want the best for their children and the economic recession have made them more worry about their children\u2019s future. They know about the unemployment among college graduates so they prefer that their children will study something that they can easily get good job.<\/p>\n

However, today young people are also well aware of this fact too. With much information available on the Internet, Social networks, and news media they know that they will have to work harder to survive in this competitive workplace. If your daughter has made a decision to study Business Administration, she probably has a reason. The best thing is to have a conversation between parents and children about career planning and direction. You need to listen to your daughter\u2019s view on her choice with an open mind as she may have very good reason that you may not even know. Forcing children to study something that you want is NOT a good solution and should NEVER be done. Even if she listens to you, how do you know that she will do well in a field of study that she does not like? What will happen if she fails? What will happen if she get a degree but could not find job? Since no one can predict the future, it is important to have an open discussion where both sides listen to the other without any hastily decision. After all, it is her life and her future, not yours.<\/p>\n

However, whether she studies Business Administration or Information Technology, her future success will be based on her skills in business, technology, and soft-skills. No matter what field that she chooses, she will have to learn about information technology as every business is using information technology to automate their processes and increases efficiency. As the world is changing, information technology will be applied everywhere and in everything. Regardless of what people do, they will have to learn information technology. Therefore, parents need to support their children\u2019s decision, whatever they choose, and understand that every good paying job require skills, NOT just a degree.<\/p>\n

Rather than discourage her to study what she likes, you should encourage her to focus on developing skills that she can use in her future career such as problem solving skills, communication skills, leadership skills, and most of all – lifelong learning skills. Nobody can predict what will happen in the next four or five years as the law of supply and demand will determine whether there will be jobs when she graduates. If she has the needed skills, the degree or the field of study is not that important, because she will get good job.<\/p>\n

Of course as parents, I am sure that you are still worrying. In discussing with your daughter about career planning, you may want to suggest another third option or a back-up plan. There is a field of study that combines both business and information technology called: Information Systems Management (ISM) which focuses on the application of information technology into business organization. This is a popular field in many countries today where students learn to manage information system in a business environment. You may let her know that there is a flexible plan in the field that she likes. She still learns business, accounting, finance and management courses but she also learns about information technology such as database administration, data mining, business intelligence and concept of Big Data. By having these skills, she can work in many places such as bank, finance company, marketing company AND information technology company, cloud computing service company or even software company. There are many options open that she should investigate further because she should have choices to select what she likes to succeed. She must understand that a degree is no longer a guarantee for job but having skills in both areas, she will not have any problem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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