{"id":2895,"date":"2013-07-08T09:57:05","date_gmt":"2013-07-08T02:57:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=2895"},"modified":"2013-07-08T09:57:05","modified_gmt":"2013-07-08T02:57:05","slug":"thanh-dat-va-tan-huong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=2895","title":{"rendered":"Th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7. Em t\u00ecm \u0111\u00e2u ra th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3? L\u00e0m sao em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra l\u1ecbch bi\u1ec3u cho m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ed1 l\u1eadp l\u1ecbch v\u00e0i gi\u1edd cho t\u1eebng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee9 KH\u00d4NG \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eadp l\u1ecbch. L\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean, th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh ra bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Th\u1eddi gian b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh ra h\u00f4m nay s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u00e0y mai. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 l\u1eadp \u01b0u ti\u00ean cho th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c nhau ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m h\u00f4m nay so v\u1edbi v\u00e0i n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd khi b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00e0m. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ecbch bi\u1ec3u ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0nh ra n\u00ean d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u01b0u ti\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. L\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u00f3 l\u1ebd chi\u1ebfm h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u01b0u ti\u00ean cao h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 KH\u00d4NG c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, n\u00ean c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u01b0u ti\u00ean kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201cTh\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi “T\u1ea1i sao?” T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m cao h\u01a1n trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, l\u01b0\u01a1ng cao h\u01a1n? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 xe t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, hay \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u00a0 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con, cho con \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh? Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn trong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eefa. T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111em ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1i cho th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng “ni\u1ec1m vui cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u201d.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a. B\u1ea1n KH\u00d4NG th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i kia. C\u1ed1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi “gi\u1ea7u” kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n, nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi trong tr\u00e1i tim h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd KH\u00d4NG t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd KH\u00d4NG c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. C\u1ed1 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t g\u00ec th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n KH\u00d4NG th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i. H\u00ecnh dung r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n KH\u00d4NG l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, KH\u00d4NG ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, kh\u00f4ng thu nh\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra?<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n KH\u00d4NG TH\u1ec2 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 KH\u00d4NG C\u00d3 C\u1ea2 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng. H\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u01b0\u1edbc ao r\u1eb1ng “c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 k\u00ec di\u1ec7u s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra cho m\u00ecnh.\u201d B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o v\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u00f9ng n\u00f3. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea1n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh, l\u00fac n\u00e0o l\u00e0 l\u00fac cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t V\u00c0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng? L\u00fac n\u00e0o l\u00e0 l\u00fac cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t V\u00c0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh? L\u00fac n\u00e0o l\u00e0 l\u00fac cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00ecnh? V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t V\u00c0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 cho m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n KH\u00d4NG c\u1ea7n l\u1eadp l\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u1eadp \u01b0u ti\u00ean m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m h\u00f4m nay. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o l\u1edbp, ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i. R\u1ed3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng khi b\u1ea1n d\u1ef1 l\u1edbp v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Sao kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng?\u00a0 Sao kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1eeaNG coi r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1ec1 sau trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tr\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t di\u1ec7u \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u1ee9 h\u1ecfi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 xem, h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn trong h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian khi h\u1ecd c\u00f2n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc; cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sinh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u k\u00ed \u1ee9c h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111ang \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c h\u1ecd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang nh\u00ecn ra ngo\u00e0i, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 phim n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video \u0111em l\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc ao h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. H\u1ecd KH\u00d4NG S\u1ed0NG m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u01af\u1edaC v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 KH\u00d4NG th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i cho t\u00e2m linh b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng nh\u00ecn nhi\u1ec1u ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u00ec di\u1ec7u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean th\u00edch so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean cay \u0111\u1eafng b\u1edfi v\u00ec bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n h\u1ecd. V\u1edbi c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean, l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y nay.\u00a0 V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e2u. Cho n\u00ean, l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111i, cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m lo t\u1edbi \u2026 Th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

—-English version—-<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Achievement and Enjoyment<\/p>\n

Many students often ask me: I need time to study, I need time with friends, I need time for myself, I need time with my family, and I need time to sleep. Where can I find time to do all of that? How can I create a schedule for all activities?<\/p>\n

Trying to schedule a number of hours for each activity that you want is unrealistic. Life is about living and NOT scheduling. As students, your time spend always vary, often on a daily basis. The time you spend today will be different from tomorrow. The right thing to do is prioritize your time accordingly. You have different things that you must do today as compare with few years from now when you are working. Of course it will change when you have family or when you have children. There is no perfect schedule that will help you balance all activities but you must understand that time should be spend based on priority in life. As students, study will probably occupies most of your time because it has higher priority than other activities. However it does NOT mean you have to spend all your time studying so try to keep some time for friends and for yourself. The time spend is different for each of us because we all have different priorities and different lives. However, there is a fundamental concept of an effective time management and I call it: \u201cAchievement and Enjoyment\u201d.<\/p>\n

Achievement help you to answers the question “Why?” Why do you want a better grade in school? Why do you want a good job, good salary? Why do you want a better car, better house? Why do you want to have a love one, or being in love? Why do you want to have a family and be able to support a family? Why do you want to have children, sending children to school and everything you can think of in a typical life? Most of you probably have some ideas on the meaning of achievement. But we also need to explore the concept of enjoyment too. Enjoyment helps you to give meaning to the achievement and the purpose of what you are living for. As part of a life, enjoyment does not mean having many things. It means Pride, Satisfaction, Happiness, Love, and a sense of enjoying the \u201cJoys of Living\u201d.<\/p>\n

Achievement and Enjoyment always go together for a meaningful life. You can NOT have one without the other. Trying to live only with achievement without enjoyment then you will see why so many “Rich” people are not happy, they may have a lot of money, many material things, but deep down in their heart, they are not happy as they should be. They may achieve many things but do NOT enjoy what they have because they do NOT have a balancing life. Try to live a life of enjoyment without any achievement then you will see that you can NOT pretend that you are happy. You may say to your friends that you are enjoying life but without any achievement, you are cheating yourself. Imagine that you do NOT work, do NOT make a living, live with your parents with no job, no income, no school, no friends, no love, no goal, then what will happen?<\/p>\n

You CAN NOT get the value from life WITHOUT BOTH Achievement and Enjoyment. Focusing on Achievement and Enjoyment every day in life will help you avoid the habit of dreaming and imagination or the wishful thinking that \u201cmaybe something wonderful will happen to me\u201d. You have a brain and a physical body then you should make use of that. Life will give you the value that you want when you live your life to the fullest. That\u2019s mean you must achieve and enjoy something every day.<\/p>\n

You are responsible for your life and you are responsible for yourself. You have all the answers if you look inside you and ask yourself, when was the last time you achieved AND enjoyed something at school? When was the last time you achieved AND enjoyed with your family? When was the last time that you achieved and enjoyed things with your friends? And how recently have you achieved AND enjoyed something just for you?<\/p>\n

You do NOT need a schedule to tell you what to do but you do need to prioritize things and ask yourself what is the most important thing that I need to do today. When you go to school, before you walk in the class, think about what you want to focus on achieving and enjoying at school. Then act accordingly when you attending classes and meet your friends. Why not make sure that you not only achieve something in school, but also enjoy the school work?\u00a0 Why not enjoy moment with your friends in school? If you can do it, you are a person that not only gets things done, but also enjoys the doing. Do NOT consider that school is hard and school works are difficult because sometime later in life you will definitely miss school, missing all the wonderful things at school. Ask your parents, ask the elderly about their best time in life. Most of them will tell you that the best time in life is the time when they are in school; student life is probably the best time as it gives you more memories than anything else in life so do not lose that precious moment.<\/p>\n

Many students focus on things that are forcing on them rather than things that they could enjoy and achieve. Many are looking outside, looking to what the movies tell them, what the videogames brings, what the famous people live, and wish they could live like that. They do NOT LIVE but only WISH and that is why they do not achieve and enjoy their time. Most things from the outside are NOT real and they are really vexations to your spirits. The more you look outside, the more you lose the wonderful thing that you have. Many students like to compare themselves with others then become bitter because there always be someone better than them. For students, my advice is to keep interested in your own career, your own goal and be humble; it is a real possession that you have today.\u00a0 And once you focus on achievement and enjoyment as a guide of your day, they are not that hard to implement. So, make it happen, for yourself, your family and all the important people that you care about\u2026 Achieve and Enjoy.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, em c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea3n … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2895","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-loi-khuyen-cho-sinh-vien"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2895","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2895"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2895\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2897,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2895\/revisions\/2897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2895"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2895"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2895"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}