{"id":1964,"date":"2013-07-04T13:03:55","date_gmt":"2013-07-04T06:03:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=1964"},"modified":"2013-07-04T13:03:55","modified_gmt":"2013-07-04T06:03:55","slug":"ki-nang-mem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=1964","title":{"rendered":"K\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y t\u1edbi v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m v\u00e0 c\u1ee9ng. Sinh vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y k\u0129 n\u0103ng c\u1ee9ng (k\u0129 n\u0103ng k\u0129 thu\u1eadt) nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n v\u1ec1 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m l\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i, k\u0129 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe, k\u0129 n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n k\u0129 n\u0103ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? Ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o?\u201d Th\u1ebf th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m n\u1eb1m \u1edf trong c\u00f5i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, chuy\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00fac b\u1ea9y nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u1ea1c quan, l\u01b0\u01a1ng tri, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c v.v. C\u00e1c k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed5, l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, trao \u0111\u1ed5i, th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v.v. C\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong t\u1ed5 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec.\u00a0Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 huy b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ra l\u1ec7nh, b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m s\u00f3c h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qui t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng “bi\u1ebft’ khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 huy v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m l\u00e0 g\u00ec. \u201cBi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d l\u00e0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 “k\u0129 n\u0103ng li\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi” v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ec1m\u201d.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 li\u1ec7u k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n b\u1ed5 sung c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc hay kh\u00f4ng. Ng\u00e0y nay h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4n v\u1ec1 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n qua th\u1eddi gian qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 suy ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng qua b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng hay b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra. Nhi\u1ec1u k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed5, tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u00ean l\u1edbp, th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn tr\u00ean l\u1edbp v\u00e0 tham gia. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u1edf trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a u\u1ef7 quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 trao quy\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho sinh vi\u00ean b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p c\u00e1c phi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 cho sinh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. Cho n\u00ean, ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 cho \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a sinh vi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u1ecd t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

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Soft-skills<\/p>\n

One issue that frequently comes up among college students is soft and hard skills. Students often told me that colleges only teach hard skills (technical skills) but not soft skills. However, there is confusion about what soft skills really are. Most students told me that soft-skills are communication skills, listening skills, leadership skills and presentation skills but when I asked \u201cDo you really need communication skills to talk to your friends? Who can teach you to be a leader?\u201d Then many of them seemed confused and could not answer.<\/p>\n

Basically, soft skills lie in the realms of emotional awareness and control, dedication to self-improvement, empathy with others, awareness in social situations, and the ability to leverage these qualities for effective leadership. Some soft-skills is part of your personality such as\u00a0optimism, common sense, responsibility, and integrity etc.. Other are skills that you can learn by practice such as empathy, motivation, teamwork, leadership, communication, negotiation, and presentation etc. Your personality in combination with your learned skills is what soft-skills are all about.\u00a0For example, sometime, you have to be direct by giving order, tell people what to do and sometime you have to be more caring and encourage them on what to do. There is no clear rule about it but \u201cknowing\u201d when you need to be direct and when you should be more caring is what the soft skills is about. The \u201cKnowing when and how\u201d is the soft-skills. This is where many students are not clear because it is an \u201cinterpersonal skills\u201d and that is why it is called \u201csoft\u201d.<\/p>\n

The question of whether soft skills should be additional part of the training program at university or not. Today most universities training programs are already full with many courses. Changing the program to add more courses on soft skills may not be a good idea. Additionally, soft skills should be developed over time through experience and self-reflection not in lectures or tests. Many soft-skills that can be taught are already included in the training. For example, projects that require teamwork, class presentations, class discussion and participation. There are times when one has to step out in front and lead. And, there are times when one has stay in the background and not get in others paths, which is the essence of delegation and empowerment.<\/p>\n

However, it is valuable for the school to support students by providing awareness training sessions so students can understand their strengths and weaknesses, their personality and prepare them to develop their own soft skills. It starts with the individual\u2019s recognition of its importance, constantly aware of these skills and many years of practice. So, the key for college is to address the recognition and expanding awareness aspects of its students before they graduate into the working world.<\/p>\n

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