{"id":1309,"date":"2013-07-01T23:45:16","date_gmt":"2013-07-01T16:45:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=1309"},"modified":"2013-07-01T23:45:16","modified_gmt":"2013-07-01T16:45:16","slug":"cau-hoi-kho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=1309","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t email t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean anh ta h\u1ecfi: \u201cEm c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m; em ngh\u0129 em l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t cho t\u1edbi khi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3 t\u1edbi. H\u1ecd h\u1ecfi: \u201cK\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n\u201d v\u00e0 em \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i g\u00ec. Em gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh em, s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a em, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n em. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho em ra. Em kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y. Xin th\u1ea7y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00e1p: \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1eebng nhanh ch\u00f3ng n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecfi: “C\u00f3 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 lai l\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u00e0 \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin h\u01a1n sao?” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 t\u1edbi chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi k\u0129 n\u0103ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 k\u0129 n\u0103ng t\u1ed5, k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p, hay t\u1eeb bi. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang xin vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng ti quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1edbp v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ti c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd hay kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 k\u0129 n\u0103ng k\u0129 thu\u1eadt r\u1ed3i cho n\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean t\u1ed5 trong d\u1ef1 \u00e1n capstone v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u00e3o l\u1ee5t, hay tr\u1ebb m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i \u1edf c\u00e1c tr\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 “kh\u1edbp \u0111\u00fang” cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n xin v\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, d\u00f9 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay ngo\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n trong l\u1edbp t\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb bi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i hay n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u00e3o l\u1ee5t. Hay b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea7u l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbp v\u00e0 cho v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video hay \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c v.v. N\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang cho c\u00f4ng ti c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

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A difficult question<\/p>\n

I received an email from a student where he asked: \u201cI had several job interviews; I thought I did well until a difficult question come up. They asked: \u201cTell me about yourself\u201d and I did not know what to say. I explained to them about my family, my hobby, and my friends. Somehow they seemed to be losing interest and they let me go. I do not know how to answer this question. Please advice.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Answer: \u201cThis is a common question that often comes up during a job interview but you should never talk about everything. The interviewer is not interested in knowing about your family or your friends. You want to know more about you whether you are the right person for the job or not. Do not quickly tell them everything but you must find out about their intention before giving an answer. You should ask: “Is there a particular aspect of my background that you would like more information on?” This will enable the interviewer to give you specific things to focus on so you can avoid telling them unnecessary things that may be inappropriate.<\/p>\n

Regardless of the given direction you should focus on important facts about your professional career. Whatever you say must refer to your personal skills such as teamwork skills, soft-skills and your characters such as honesty, integrity, or compassion. You are applying for a job and what the company is interested in is whether you will fit in their company or not. Since they probably already ask you about your technical skills so this is the question about your characters. You may mention about being a team member in a capstone project and how you work well with others. You may tell a story about your activities outside the school such as you often volunteer to help poor people, flood victims, or orphan children in the local orphanage. Your answer should create an impression to the interviewer that you have the \u201cright fit\u201d to the job that you applied. You are the person who work hard, whether in school or outside of school. You work well with people, from classmates to friends. You are a compassionate person who volunteers to help other unfortunate people such as orphans or flood victims. Or you may describe yourself as a leader who is voted the head of the class and give example from your activities that indicates an ability to lead others in school activities.<\/p>\n

This is a common question but many students often fail because they do not know the intention of the question. This is not the time to tell them everything about your family and your relatives or your hobby of video games or music etc. It is really about those aspects of your personality so they can determine whether you are the right person for their company or not.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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