{"id":1224,"date":"2013-07-01T17:19:00","date_gmt":"2013-07-01T10:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=1224"},"modified":"2013-07-01T17:19:00","modified_gmt":"2013-07-01T10:19:00","slug":"loi-khuyen-cho-hoc-sinh-tot-nghiep-trung-hoc-phan-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/science-technology.vn\/?p=1224","title":{"rendered":"L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ea7n 2"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong blog tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n gi\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. L\u00ed do l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi, k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi, g\u1eb7p th\u1ea7y m\u1edbi, v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111ang tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec thanh ni\u00ean n\u00e0o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 tham d\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 hay b\u1ea1n trai hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i\u00a0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u1edbi cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng lo v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n. Trong \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 logic. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi d\u1eef li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn n\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho h\u1ecd t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1eady. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n, h\u1ecfi xin g\u1eb7p v\u1edbi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i, ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho sinh vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u0129. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ecdc \u00edt nh\u1ea5t hai gi\u1edd cho m\u1ed7i gi\u1edd tr\u00ean l\u1edbp. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00ec \u1edf trung h\u1ecdc b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc hai gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0y c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p cho n\u00ean v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng theo qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n t\u1ee5t l\u1ea1i sau l\u1edbp v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111u\u1ed5i theo. Thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m l\u00fac ho\u00e0 v\u1edbi lu\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a l\u1edbp, nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t l\u1ea1i sau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp. Trong 30 n\u0103m d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi l\u00fac. Sinh vi\u00ean s\u1ebd t\u1edbi v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i c\u1edb v\u00ec h\u1ecd b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t l\u1ea1i sau l\u1edbp. \u0110\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i, v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp v\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u1edbp.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi lu\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a l\u1edbp l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. L\u00ed do sinh vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u m\u1edbi c\u1ee9 t\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m n\u00f3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi \u0111\u00eam h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng trung h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed9p b\u00e0i mu\u1ed9n. H\u1ecd sinh trung h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t th\u1ea1o vi\u1ec7n c\u1edb nh\u01b0 \u201cEm xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec em \u1ed1m\u201d hay \u201cem ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u00e0 em v\u00ec b\u00e0 gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kho\u1ebb, em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ed9p b\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u1ede \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1edb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed9n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m nom c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed9p c\u00e1i g\u00ec mu\u1ed9n; cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee9c khuya trong \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c theo k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi l\u1edbp, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, xin l\u1ea5y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean n\u00e0y: Theo k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi l\u1edbp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t l\u1ea1i sau.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec m\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m ra s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh trung b\u00ecnh \u1edf trung h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh t\u00e0i n\u0103ng trong c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trung h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng theo k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady. \u1ede \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m kh\u1edbp m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0o trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi k\u00ec th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tu\u1ef3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng theo b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. \u1ede \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1edbp v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00e1c nhau t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc t\u1eebng l\u1edbp (Nh\u1edb qui t\u1eafc: hai gi\u1edd cho m\u1ed7i gi\u1edd tr\u00ean l\u1edbp). N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ed1n l\u1edbp m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00e1m gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5 v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00fa s\u1ed1c cho h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi l\u1edbp \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1eaft tivi, b\u1ecf tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i video, d\u1eebng ph\u00f2ng ch\u00e1t hay nh\u1eafn tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i t\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc d\u1eady s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1edbi l\u1edbp. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i cho m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n d\u1eady. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, d\u1eady l\u00fac 7:00 \u0111i t\u1edbi l\u1edbp l\u00fac 8:00 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc khuya trong \u0111\u00eam nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 l\u1edbp.\u00a0 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf qua m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Trong \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch v\u00e0 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan ai s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 chung c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i th\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m. Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i, b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n trung h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4n ngoan, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n trong l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd an \u1ee7i b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay \u0111ang v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecd, cho n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn h\u1ecd cho c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Xin nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u0169ng g\u00e2y ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi l\u00fac. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u00e0nh x\u1eed x\u1ea5u khi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean x\u1ea5u. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y sinh vi\u00ean gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u1edf c\u00e1c l\u1edbp d\u1ec5 sau v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n tham gia v\u00e0o u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng ma tu\u00fd b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p d\u01b0\u1edbi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng ra g\u00ec. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00f9ng kh\u1ea9u ng\u1eef m\u00e0 h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 d\u1ee5c n\u1eefa v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 chung chu\u1ea9n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eabn nhau. S\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u0103m nom cho b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh sinh vi\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y trong t\u00e2m, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

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Advice to high school graduates part 2<\/p>\n

In my previous blog, I mentioned about being prepared for college. College is not difficult, but it is challenging for most students, no matter how good you are. The reason is you are going to a new environment, making new friends, meeting new teachers, and learning new way of study. Also you are maturing into an adult and maturing is a difficult process for any young person.<\/p>\n

When you select a college to attend, you must do it because it has something to offer you such as a special program that you want. You must choose a college where you can achieve the most and be successful. Never select a college because your best friend is going there or your boyfriend or your girlfriend is going there. No matter what school that you go to, you will meet new friends so do not worry about not having friends. In college, you have to make decision about the field of study. This is not an easy decision but you have to make it wisely and logically. It is your life and your future so you must do research about the market trends before making decision. When you have all the data to help you to come up with a choice, discuss it with your parents and explain to them why you are making that decision. If needed, ask for a meeting with a career advisor from the school to help guide you but in the end, it is you who must make the decision.<\/p>\n

The first few weeks in college are where many things can happen, especially for students who are not well prepared. You are expected to study at least two hours for every hour of class. That is not easy because it only took you two hours to study a day in high school and you did well so you are wondering if this rule is too strict. There are so many activities and new friends to meet so for the first few weeks, you did not follow the rule. Suddenly you are behind the class and have to catch up. Instead of using those weeks as a time to get on with the flow of the class, many students are left behind and could not catch up. In my 30 years of teaching in college, I saw it happened all the time. Students would come in with all kinds of excuse because they are behind the class. In the end, few could catch up but many failed and dropped class.<\/p>\n

Failure to get on with the flow of class is a major problem to most college students. The reason students cannot catch up because new materials keep on coming and they cannot get it under control. If a professor assigns homework, you should to do it immediately. Do not wait until the night before because there will be more homework, more materials and you will be overwhelmed. In high school, there are excuses for turning in late. High school students are very good at having excuses such as \u201cI am sorry because I am sick\u201d or \u201cI have to take care of my grandmother as she is old and not feeling well, can I turn in homework next week?\u201d In college, there is no such excuse. If you are late, you get zero. You are an adult and you are responsible for your own learning. If you care about your work, you should not turn anything late; even you have to stay up late at night to do the work. By keep up with the class, you learn responsibility and are responsible for yourself. If you want to do well in college, please take this advice: Keep up with the class and do not stay behind.<\/p>\n

When you go to college, nobody knows about what you did in high school. Who you were, how good or how bad you were does not mean much in college. College is a time to make a fresh start. You could be an average student in high school but with some studying disciplines you could be a top student in college. You may be a talented student in high school activities and have many admirers but if you do not keep up with your class, you will not be as popular as you think you are. In college, time management is very important. You have to learn how to fit everything into a limited amount of time that you have and you really do not have much time. In high school, you go to school for a period of time and the rest of the time is yours to spend however you want. In college, you have many classes at different times each day, you have to study for each class (Remember the rule: two hours for each hour in class). If you have four class a day that means eight hours of studying. In this case, you do not have much time for extra activities and sleep. This is a shock to most first year students as they are not aware of it.<\/p>\n

You go to college to get educated, you go to class to learn and it is a full time job. You will need self-discipline to manage your time effectively. You must learn to turn off the television, quit the video games, stop the chat room or text messages and keep your mobile phone off to focus on study. You must learn to wake up early to go to class. Do not wait for your mother to wake you up. It is your responsibility and your discipline. Of course, getting up at 7:00 to go to class at 8:00 is not easy, especially if you study late at night but you must do it. And you do not want to miss a class.\u00a0 If you skip one class, you will do it again and you will not be able to catch up. You will fail.<\/p>\n

In college you will meet new friends and this is important. You need friends who have similar goals and directions. You need friends to talk with and share similar experiences with. You must choose wisely who will be your friends. Select people who share the same likes and dislikes, who enjoy doing the same activities as you do. Remember that college is a fresh start and you are given the chance to start over, leaving some of your high school friends and making new friends. If you choose wisely, your new friends in college could be your friends for life. Good friends will help you in your time of difficulty. They will console you when you are having a hard time or struggling through a particular challenge. Good friends will be there to back you up when you need them, so choose them carefully.<\/p>\n

Please remember that friends offer significant influence on your behavior as you will become like them. You will change to act like them and adopt the words that they use, as well as their behaviors. You may not agree with me, but I have seen it happen all the time. I saw good students misbehaved when they were with bad students. I saw best student failed easy class after a few weeks involved in alcohol and illegal drugs under the influence of some undesirable people. When you go out with a group of friends, you may not realize that you started using words that they did and act like them, this is just the beginning. If they drink, you will drink too. If they smoke, you will smoke too. If they have sex, you will have sex too and if you are not careful, you will have to live with the consequences.<\/p>\n

It is important to choose friends who share the same standards as you, that way, you can help each other. Be with people who will support and care for you, and who are similar to you and your interests. Having friends who share your dream, share your goals, and share your future can make you a better students and better person. Never forget why you are going to college and your responsibilities to your family, to your society and to your country. If you keep these in mind, I am sure you will do well in college and in the future.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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